Swine-flu victim a “vibrant little girl”

Swine-flu victim a “vibrant little girl”

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Heaven Wilson, shown in a family photo trying out an electric guitar, died Wednesday from swine flu. Her grandmother’s ex-husband, Edward Sparrow, planned to teach her to play the guitar.

 

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As soon as 6-year-old Heaven Wilson stepped off the school bus, her grandmother guessed that she wasn't feeling well.

Two days later, the Amelia County first-grader was rushed to CJW Medical Center (Chippenham), where she spent nearly two weeks before she died of swine flu late Wednesday.

Family members said Heaven was hooked up to breathing tubes when she mouthed her last words: "Don't let me die."

As relatives made funeral arrangements, last night school officials told parents in a telephone alert that all Amelia schools will be closed throughout next week because of flu illness, said School Board Chairman Damon Moyer. Schools and buses will be cleaned thoroughly, he said.

Heaven became the 10th person in Virginia to die of causes related to H1N1 flu.

The girl's grandmother, Patricia Sparrow, said Heaven was sick when she got home from school Oct. 7 and was taken to the doctor the next day. She had a sore throat and a temperature of 103 degrees. The doctor said she had the flu but didn't diagnose her as having the H1N1 virus, Sparrow said.

Sparrow said the doctor told her to take Heaven home and give her water and broth and Tylenol. Sparrow said she followed the instructions.

Heaven's mother, Sara Wilson, and her husband were out of town. The couple and Wilson's two sons, ages 1 and 9, live with Sparrow in Jetersville, as did Heaven. Wilson is four months pregnant.

Heaven, a first-grader at Amelia Elementary School, woke Sparrow around dawn the morning after she went to the doctor and said she couldn't breathe. Sparrow said she called 911, and an ambulance took the girl to the hospital.

"By the time they got to Chippenham hospital, she was blue" and had a fever of 106 degrees, Sparrow said.

Heaven was unconscious for much of her time at the hospital and on a respirator the entire time, Sparrow said. Family members stayed by her side, praying often.

In one of Heaven's waking moments, Wilson said, her daughter mouthed the words "I love you, Mommy."

Another time, Sparrow's ex-husband, Edward Sparrow, said he asked Heaven if she was having sweet dreams. "She shook her little head no," he said.

After Heaven developed pneumonia in both lungs and a staph infection and underwent three blood transfusions, she was taken off life support.

"I held her and cradled her in my arms until she was gone," Wilson said.

Heaven, nicknamed "Sissy," recently had learned to ride a bike without training wheels, wanted to play soccer and hoped to resume ballet lessons, her grandmother said. Edward Sparrow planned to teach her to play the guitar.

"Make sure that your kids get thoroughly checked out," Wilson said, "and make sure the school they go to is thoroughly sanitized."

Heaven's death occurred when flulike illness seemed to be on the decline in the 1,812-student Amelia school system. At one point last week, daily absences rose to 333 students, but by Thursday that number had dropped to 229.

David M. Gangel, school superintendent, said he was not surprised that absences increased to 311 yesterday, a rise he said was likely due to the child's death.

The school system was originally told that enough H1N1 vaccine for everyone would arrive by this past Tuesday, he said. On Wednesday, the school system got enough vaccine for only prekindergarten through second grades, and fewer than 50 percent of those students had returned parental permission slips.

Family and close friends of Heaven will gather for a viewing tomorrow from 5 to 7 p.m. at Joseph McMillian Funeral Home, 1826 Cox Road in Nottoway County.



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Flag Comment Posted by happy_girl74 on October 26, 2009 at 11:01 am

Outraged mom, I know what you are talking about, Im from the same county you are.. I know what you mean by incompetent hosp staff. This little girl did not have to die.. the dr’s should have seen it coming, and the hosp should have helped keep her safe as well. seems to me that she got sicker when she got to the hosp.  I can’t imagine how much pain they are feeling..from this tragedy.. this story just makes me cry over and over, and to hear the last words of the little girl,. dont let me die…

Flag Comment Posted by Outraged Mom on October 26, 2009 at 3:45 am

What a Tragedy! I am a nurse, my 14 year old son is just getting over the swine flu. It hit him so fast and hard it is unbelievable. Luckily, I knew what kind of things to look for and how to treat him. He should have been in the hospital, but I felt more confident treating him at home (I live in West Virginia, and our hospital is very small and incompetent). I was waking him up every 2 hours to deep breath and cough to help keep his lungs clear, listening to his lungs with stethoscope, etc. I firmly belive if I had not done these things he may have died. If I had let him sleep (like most parents do when their children are ill) he may not have been alive in the morning. That is how hard and fast the symptoms hit! I thank God I had the skills to know what to do. Most parents don’t keep a stethocope in the 1st aid box, and probably would not know what to listen for anyway. The 1st day he was diagnosed with swine, I actually thought it wasn’t too bad, then the second day, it hit him like a bomb! 105 degree fever, etc.If this would not have happened in the afternoon for me to see, I wouldnt have been waking him every 2 hours, and it may have been a Tragedy for us too.The school board in Greenbrier Co, WV where I live has a swine policy:“As long as we have enough staff to teach, we will remain open”. I have kept my other 2 kids home all week , isolated from there brother and they are not sick. I am expected to send them back to schools that have known cases of Swine Flu. In fact, about 30% of the high school has it. I dont think my 5 year old would be able to survive what his brother went through, even though he is strong and healthy. These schools need to wake up! They dont even suggest or reccomend the kids wear masks, which would prevent alot of them from getting sick. It gets in through your nose or mouth. This poor little beautiful girl who died is such a tragedy. I send love and condolences to her family and friends.Unfortunately, there will more behind her. Especially when the schools do nothing. Or do too little, too late. Our children are treasures, shouldnt the government be a little more concerned about them? Again to the family of this little girl-my heart goes out to you,you will be in our prayers.

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