Letters To The Editor (cont’d)
Some Just Want Abortion to Go Away
Editor, Times-Dispatch: I have heard that President Barack Obama is looking for a meeting of the minds on abortion and I have read the Op/Ed column by Lindsey Oliver, "Every Woman Should Have Reproductive Rights."
There are people who promote abortion, people who provide abortions, people who have abortions, and those of us who have just hoped it would go away. The children who were never given a chance have no voice.
There have been plenty of laws that have turned out to be evil. Where we stand with God is all that will matter in the long run. I do think that we need to speak out for those who have no voice. When one dies, a woman may come face to face with the child she killed. What will she say to him or her? It will be too late to repent.
Mary Louise Forte.
Richmond.
Pro-Lifers Need More Tolerance
Editor, Times-Dispatch: Lindsey Oliver's column regarding women's reproductive choices was excellent and brave. As a Catholic, I can't accept her perspective lightly, but neither can I condemn it. I never faced an unwanted pregnancy and have no idea what I would have done if I had, so I can't censure a woman's right to choose.
In fact, as a pro-choice person, I don't think anti-abortionists are "pro-life." They should be termed "anti-choice." To Catholics and others frenzied over abortion, remember that God is perfect. There is no sense in believing in a flawed God. If you decide to believe, you accept that God is merciful and omniscient and that, as he created all souls, those innocent, aborted ones will be recycled to choose new parents. Let's hope they'll make better choices for their next junket to Earth.
Lighten up, people; give women the right to choose what to do with their bodies -- even if you don't approve. Open your hearts and minds, and understand that this isn't a perfect world. Show tolerance toward people whose ideas you don't always accept or agree with. Jesus did.
Carolyn Waugaman.
Hanover.
Pro-Choicers Ignore Pregnancy Solutions
Editor, Times-Dispatch: Lindsey Oliver's Op/Ed column, "Every Woman Should Have Reproductive Rights," epitomizes a banality of evil rarely seen in today's civilized society. Typically the abortion argument stirs much emotion on both sides, but Oliver's stunning lack of emotion and detached indifference toward human life is a frightening departure from the typical stridency.
Oliver neglects personal accountability and sharply blames the federal government -- and especially white, male, Republican Henry Hyde -- for keeping poor women from getting the abortions they so rightly deserve. The fact is that this government has made abortion even more accessible than before, with continued taxpayer funding of Planned Parenthood and the president's recent overturning of the Mexico City Act.
Dangerously misguided advocates like Oliver victimize the very women they profess to help, choosing to accept the bad science, lies, and deception behind the pro-choice movement. They ignore proactive solutions such as behavior modification, abstinence, and contraception -- all proven procedures, but not falling under the pitiless Oliver's twisted definition of women's rights.
Women should not be tricked into abortions when there are other options. Crisis pregnancy centers and Commonwealth Catholic Charities, among others, help women through all stages of pregnancy, offering preand post-natal care and job skills.
A recent Gallup polls shows that 51 percent of Americans now consider themselves pro-life, and a recent Polling Company/Women Trend poll shows that 71 percent of Americans oppose taxpayer-funded abortions. With eroding public support for abortions, coupled with education, abstinence programs, and personal accountability, folks like Oliver will soon be without a job. The unborn certainly pray this is the case.
Dale Brumfield.
Doswell.
Destroying the Unborn Is Not Reproductive
Editor, Times-Dispatch: In response to Lindsey Oliver's Op/Ed column, "Every Woman Should Have Reproductive Choices": Since when is destroying an innocent child who is developing and growing inside its mother's womb considered reproductive? It seems to me that a better description for it would be destructive, as the mother is not producing anything but rather destroying a human being.
How our society ever came to this is beyond me. I cannot figure out why a woman who becomes pregnant and does not want the child cannot carry it to term and then put the baby up for adoption. I personally know several people who have placed their babies for adoption. This gives the baby a life and also fills a need for many Americans.
I also know women who have been on waiting lists for several years waiting to adopt a child. This wouldn't be necessary if our country hadn't legalized abortion. Does the mother with the unwanted pregnancy just not want to be bothered with carrying a child to full term to later place for adoption? Has it become just too easy to dispose of the unwanted baby?
I absolutely, positively object to my tax dollars going to support in any way, shape, or form, any type of services that would financially support women who want to take the lives of their unborn babies. I had to work very hard for every penny I've earned, and I don't want it going to something that I believe is unethical, inhumane, and immoral. I certainly hope Virginia will never be on board to support any type legislation that would assist women in disposing of their unwanted babies.
Mary T. Hutchinson.
Richmond.
Pro-Lifers Aren't, Really
Editor, Times-Dispatch: I read Paul Greenberg's Op/Ed column, " News That Didn't Happen at Notre Dame's Commencement," with familiar trepidation.
He wrote, "Pro-choice and pro-life? Abortion and opposition to it? Good and evil?" He goes on to say that Barack Obama and many other politicians avoid the basic issues of abortion by not really answering them. He even adds that "abortion supporters have learned not to be too specific about what is actually going on."
This cannot be said of pro-life supporters. They get right to the point: If you have an abortion, you are a murderer! What's really going on? Pro-life does not support birth control! Pro-life does not support Planned Parenthood. What's up with that? Even the pope recently stated that the Catholic Church does not approve of condoms. Good grief! Sounds like a good way to make sure there are abortions!
Why must it be all one way or the other? I don't want an abortion. I want reliable, affordable, easy-to-get birth control.
Greenberg also wrote, "black and Hispanic women tend to have abortions out of all proportion to their numbers." Could it possibly be because birth-control pills cost $30 or more a month? A woman must see a doctor to get these pills, and those visits are very expensive! It's possible that back-alley abortions cost less!
Why, oh why, is this the case? Pro-lifers should be focusing on helping make sure abortions aren't necessary. All women should have access to affordable birth control. All humans are sexual. If you really don't want murder of the unborn child, sexuality must be recognized. Everyone wants to be "pro-life." Call each side what it is! Pro-Choice and No-Choice.
Susan Keadle.
Moseley.
Virginia Continues To Fund Abortions
Editor, Times-Dispatch: Lindsey Oliver claims that "although 15 states use their own funds to cover abortions under many circumstances. Virginia is not one of them." This statement is absolutely false. Despite legislative efforts from The Family Foundation in conjunction with hundreds of pro-family citizens, Virginia continues to fund abortions. In fact, Virginia funds elective abortions.
The federal government subsidizes abortions only when a Medicaid-eligible woman's life is at risk or in cases of rape or incest. In Virginia, we fund abortions beyond the federal requirements. Incredibly, from 2006-2007, Virginia tax dollars have funded 301 elective abortions (149 in fiscal year 2007 and 152 in fiscal year 2006).
Public interest is in favor of ending this funding. The Family Foundation and the Virginia Catholic Conference co-sponsored a Mason-Dixon poll in December 2008, and when asked if they supported Virginia's policy of using state money to pay for abortions falling outside the categories of rape, incest, and endangering the life of the mother, 46 percent of respondents were opposed to the funding, with only 39 percent in support.
Furthermore, a recent Harris poll found that 63 percent of Americans oppose taxpayer funding of abortion. Combine this with the widely publicized recent Gallup poll showing that 53 percent of Americans believe that abortion should be legal only in certain circumstances, and it is clear the tide against abortion on demand is growing. Why, then, is Virginia choosing to subsidize elective abortions when most citizens disagree with the policy?
In a time when our economy is struggling, it is time to end this unethical and unpopular funding of elective abortion. Virginia tax dollars should no longer be funneled to a cause that most citizens do not support. Victoria E. Cobb, President, The Family Foundation of Virginia. Richmond.
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Waugaman, there is no such thing as a pro-abortion Catholic. You are either pro-abortion, or you are Catholic. There is no middle ground. How many times has the Church and the Pope stated that life begins at conception? Yet you still think it is open for debate. It isn’t.
Also, where did you find the weirdness about souls being “recycled”? That isn’t in the Catechism.
I do not know how one would compel a woman to give birth against her will.
The prohibition of legal abortion beginning in the 1880s under anti-obscenity (Comstock) laws that prohibited the dissemination of birth control information via the U.S. Postal Service did not reduce the numbers of women who sought abortions. Although accurate records could not be kept, it is known that between the 1880s and 1973, many thousands of women were harmed as a result of illegal abortion. That was the era of self-induced abortion, back-alley butchers & underground abortion referral networks.
Prior to Roe v Wade, it was not uncommon for women to arrive at hospital emergency rooms with a hanger, darning needle, crochet hook, or… trapped in the cervix. Many women died from of endotoxic shock, bleeding or other complication of illegal abortion.
Abortions were performed in the U.S. throughout the 20th Century—before & after Roe v Wade. An all this time the Catholic Church has publicly denounced abortion. This is not the case for Protestant Evangelicals who now claim to be “Pro-Life.” In fact, conservative Evangelicals, for the most part, were silent about murdering the unborn during the same time and remained silent until 6 or 7 years after Roe v Wade. Why? I do not know. But I suspect they are not and never have been truly “Pro-life.”
For some time now as many as 400,000 human embryos left over from fertility clinics have remained in frozen storage. Only a handful of these embryos are adopted into the wombs of truly Pro-Life women and become “snowflake babies.“ (About 134 snowflake children so far). The fate of the remaining 399,866 human lives is uncertain: Frozen limbo, discarded as medical waste, or death by research. In the U.S. there are more than 399,866 people who claim to be “Pro-Life” and could save those lives.
Suppose the “unethical and unpopular funding of elective abortion” is ended but abortions continue anyway—as they did from the 1880s till 1973? Is murder of the unborn acceptable to Victoria E. Cobb and The Family Foundation of Virginia as long as Virginia tax dollars are not used?
There is more to being “Pro-Life” than insisting that abortion is murder. There is an old saying: “Better to light a candle than to curse the darkness.” It seems to me that many who claim to be “Pro-Life” would rather curse the darkness than save the life of an unborn child.
Okay, get out the popcorn; because this one is probably going to be a long thread with many responses.
First, the old “pro-choice” and “pro-life” labels may need some revision. Just as there are indeed some ‘pro-abortion’ folks in our midst, there are plenty of ‘anti-choice’ or ‘pro-birth’ people to balance them out. Why is there so little focus on actually PREVENTING pregnancy in the first place? Don’t people realize that this might actually reduce the perceived “need” for a woman to seek an abortion? Jeez!
Second, I hear a lot of caterwauling about ‘funding’ for abortions - especially when this money comes from taxpayers. Definitely a legitimate gripe! That being said, it costs a lot less for a poor woman to have an abortion than to carry a baby to term, deliver it and stand a great likelihood that she & her child will be using far more taxpayer dollars through welfare, food stamps, public schooling, etc., etc., etc.
I don’t like the idea of putting a dollar value on human life, but the reality is what it is. Don’t complain about taxpayer-funded abortions costing money unless you’re willing to pay out a lot more public money (i.e., welfare) to raise all of those extra children - many of whom will be born to lower-income women who don’t have the same access to so-called “family planning” medicine.
On the other side, there are plenty of people cashing in on the abortion industry. This is often an ugly truth that never rears its head in the debate.
As for the “Mexico Gag Order” or whatever they call it, why are so many worried about us sending money to foreign countries that tell women about abortions? We should not be sending them ANY MONEY AT ALL; as those funds are sorely needed here at home. We have enough of our own domestic problems, you know!
This issue is not going to be solved by Barack Obama, The Supreme Court, Congress, Pat Robertson, NARAL, the RNC, the DNC or any other such entity.
I suspect that 10 percent of people are ‘extremists’ on either side of this issue, while the other 80 percent of us lie somewhere in between. Oh well, my free opinion is worth what you paid for it. LOL!
~ So sayeth the Dutchman! ~
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